How to Spot Asian Cougars and Sugar Mamas

Cougars and sugar mamas are increasingly popular. Older ladies are more experienced at relationships, and will know exactly what they're doing in the bedroom. On top of this, increasing numbers of women have good careers and they are increasingly the breadwinners in society. So it's not surprising that older mature women have never been in greater demand.

It's generally accepted that Asian ladies age very well indeed, so they're top candidates for finding cougar ladies and sugar mamas. This isn't just idle talk - I've traveled extensively through Asia and I've seen how hot the older women can be - especially in China and Japan.

So how can you find Asian cougars, and which Asian ladies make the best cougars?

Spotting Asian Cougars in the Wild

Assuming you're using online Asian dating sites, then here are four ways of spotting Asian cougars:

Many Western men choose to date young Asian girls, but are they overlooking the more experienced cougars?

Dating site membership status. Many Asian cougars find it hard to find husbands in their own country. So they often turn to online dating in search of foreign men who will love them. Quite a number of cougars have plenty of cash, so they'll often sign up for full membership of a dating site. This sets them apart from the majority of Asian girls who just take out a free membership plan and wait for guys to contact them. If you're using a site like Cupid Media's or Chinese Love Links, then the cougars will often have Gold or even Platinum memberships.

Clothes. Asian women (particularly Chinese and Japanese women) love designer labels. In countries like China, an LV bag is a status symbol. The thing to remember though is that genuinely wealthy Asian women won't tend to flaunt their wealth, particularly if they've earned their fortune themselves. So you will often find that the wealthiest ladies on sites like Japan Cupid and Chinese Love Links are actually modestly dressed. They will dress smartly, but they won't be head to toe in designer labels. Age. I guess it depends on what your own age is as to what age of cougar you want to date. But you'll generally find that the 35-45 age range is the best if you're seeking Asian cougars. It's probably not worth going over this. Older Asian women don't tend to have much experience of Western men. They can also find it hard to learn English if they don't already know the language. Balls. Cougars are confident and they'll have no qualms in contacting younger men. This is in spite of the fact that there are plenty of younger girls to choose from on the average Asian dating website. Personally I've dated girls up to 14 years my junior, and I know of older men who have pushed that age difference even further. Despite this, I've had a couple of cougars contact me. I even had a ballsy lady contact me who was 16 years my senior. If I'd have specified that I was looking for an older lady then no doubt I'll have had more emails from cougars. Which Asian Women Make the Best Cougars?

So if you're a younger guy who wants to find an older Asian lady for romance and marriage, what are your options?

It's usually best to rule out the Philippines or Thailand. There aren't so many rich ladies from these countries on Asian dating sites. They also tend to prefer older men. In fact many 20 year old Thais or Filipinas end up marrying men who are in their 40's, 50's or even 60's.

Three countries worth considering are China, Japan and South Korea. South Korea is quite a tough one to crack as there isn't much of a man shortage. On top of that the language is fairly hard to get to grips with, and foreigners don't find Korea as popular to visit as China or Japan. However, there are plenty of rich cougars in South Korea, and a fit younger Western man could well catch the eye of a sugar mama or two.

China is a rich hunting ground for the Asian cougar seeker

Japan is a good choice for the cougar hunter. Western men are rare in Japan, and as far as dating goes, rarity usually equals popularity. Hooking up with a well off Japanese woman is a good plan as Japan is hideously expensive to most Westerners, and you don't want to be living on Cup Noodles for your time in Japan. On the downside, Japanese women are pretty hard to understand. They're OK for a short term relationship, but if you're interested in a serious relationship with an older Japanese woman then you'll need to have the culture nailed down.

China perhaps offers the best opportunity for a man seeking a relationship with an older women. Chinese women age extremely well. On top of that there's China's vast population which means an endless choice of stunning women. If you're seeking an Asian sugar mama then China is a good choice.

Chinese society makes it quite easy for women to do well in life, and there are many Chinese ladies who are millionaires, or even billionaires. Even better for the kept man in waiting is that these ladies can find it exceedingly hard to find husbands in China, so they often look overseas. Chinese men tend to prefer younger women, and won't often look at women over the age of 28. And many of these formidable Chinese ladies were way too busy in their 20's to be out dating men. Just bear in mind that Chinese ladies are often used to wearing the trousers in a relationship, especially those from Shanghai and Eastern China.

So as you can see there are plenty of opportunities open to the man seeking an Asian cougar or sugar mama. Sign up to an Asian dating site like or Chinese Love Links and you'll be blown away by the quality of the older women on these sites. Enjoy!